Here’s the RULES OF NO:

Two out of these three have to trigger for me to say YES:

– KNOWLEDGE: Will I learn something

– FUN: Is it fun

– MONEY: Is it financially worthwhile.

Let say I was suppose to speak at a conference with 10,000 people.

Right now, I’m saying “no” to the 10,000 people because:

I won’t learn anything new from speaking. It’s not fun to fly for a day, speak for 30 minutes, fly home for a day. And I have no financial benefit.

Hmmm, maybe this even applies to relationships? Who should I be with? And what do I offer? (So they don’t say “no” to me!)

So what should I do with all that free time? Maybe write a book?

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